Eating
addictions are biological illnesses
like diabetes, alcoholism and heart disease. Compulsive overeating,
anorexia, and bulimia do not occur because of lack of will power or
personality flaws. Research is finding that people with eating addictions
have chemical differences within the brain that make it likely that
they will eat abnormally. Just as we cannot cure diabetes, alcoholism
or heart disease, we cannot cure an eating addiction. Just as someone
with heart disease must take special care of themselves because
of their disease, so must a person with an eating addiction. Otherwise,
the disease gets worse, shortens lives and, tragically, often kills.
Every
person with an eating addiction has asked "Why me?"
There are surely those who have the chemical imbalances that put them
at risk for an eating addiction, but never develop one. Eating addictions
occur when the chemical imbalance is brought out by confusion, stress,
and most of all, painful feelings. For everyone with an eating addiction,
the cycle started with pain. Full recovery means walking through the
pain and letting go of the shame and old beliefs about not being good
enough.
Unfortunately,
no one can functionally deal with pain when their lives are unmanageable
and when the eating addiction is out of control. Recovery
is a heart and mind-set that includes clear guidelines and tools to
arrest the eating addiction first and then work on the
painful feelings underneath.
Psychiatrists and/or counselors
cannot fix a person with an eating addiction. While there is hope that
better medicines will be developed (some already help), professionals
can learn how to serve as better guides to recovery. But
people with eating addictions must fix themselves.
They must admit that they have a disease and are sick; they must
admit that their lives will stay out of control unless the eating addiction
is arrested. They must abstain from the eating addiction, no matter
what and begin living the tools to recovery.
There is no easy way to recovery,
but there is a way
to recover.
Paraphrased
from the Foreword of Dieting: A Dry Drunk. All rights reserved. Copyright
1991 • BLJ Nautilus Publications
B.L. Jackson
Recovery Center • 1-800-278-8050
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B. L. Jackson Recovery Enterprises